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Tag Archives: now
On the Heels of Tomorrow
Here she is, folks, one year ago when she turned 5. Echo saw this photo this morning and said, “What’s wrong with my face?”. It’s funny how little sense of our selves (in our ever-changing flux) we actually have, isn’t … Continue reading
I’m thankful for… The (Global) Empathy Hotline!
Hello World. I have some exciting news and gratitudes I’d like to share with you today. First I want to say thanks to Ashoka who created Activating Empathy which held a contest we entered last year with our company Feeleez. Ashoka still … Continue reading
I’m Thankful for… these Ladies
I’m finding myself wanting to make a little habit of this week-ending gratitude thingy. So I’m here today to offer a few appreciationals about these four amazing ladies in my life. Natalie and Echo were gone this week to Portland … Continue reading
A Return to Self
Greetings friends, family, and fellow blog-watchers: I’ve been out of the proverbial loop for the last month, and a bit fuzzy-headed for several months, so I wanted to take the opportunity to reconnect here and fill you in on some … Continue reading
Summer-A-Go-Go
For our family, Summer has now official started! One of the first indicators was the beginning of Bella’s vacation from school and the corollary arrival of our “biggest sister” to her Missoula home. Xi and Echo nearly launched into orbit … Continue reading
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Tagged children, family, family fun, family rituals, gratitude, life, now, simple pleasures, summer, summer vacation, YES!
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What’s Been Going On
Dear Friends (including those I have yet to actually meet in any fashion): I’ve missed you, and I’ve missed coming here to commune with you, and to tell you what I’ve been thinking about and what the [current] “haps” is … Continue reading
Posted in Beautifulness
Tagged family, family fun, kid world, life, now, parenting, simple pleasures
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Home Again Home Again
We made it back home yesterday. After winding through some of my favorite parts of America and sharing some of my favorite vistas with my family, and sharing my family with those same places, we drove into Montana yesterday afternoon, … Continue reading
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Tagged Big Sky Country, family, gratitude, home, life, Montana, now, simple pleasures, travel, YES!
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On the Road Again…
As some of you, no doubt, already know from Natalie’s blog, the McTague family has launched itself on a good ole fashioned, classically Americana-styled, road trip vacation. Monday morning we set out across the wild-green, river-swollen wilderness of Montana and … Continue reading
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Tagged children, family, gratitude, life, now, parenting, simple pleasures, unschooling
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Let the Fun Begin!
This girl. When she comes in, the contours of the room bulge outward under the weight of her gigantic presence. When they know she’s coming for the weekend, or when it’s coming to the end of any length of time since they … Continue reading
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Tagged birthdays, children, co-parenting, family, gratitude, life, now, parenting, parenting after divorce, play, simple pleasures
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Death and Tenderness
Some cat killed a bird in our yard the other day. By some cat, I mean either one of our own two cuddly killers, or the strange new neighbor cat who was only a half-hour earlier shooed away from our … Continue reading
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Tagged children, death, emotional intelligence, empathy parenting, family, family rituals, kid world, life, natural parenting, now, parenting, tweety
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Speaking of Candles…
We celebrated the last night of Hanukah yesterday and already I am missing the nightly time spent with the season’s center piece — the menorah. We aren’t Jewish and we aren’t waxing religious, but the evening candle-lighting ceremony has come … Continue reading
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Tagged candles, children, family, family rituals, hanukah, menorah, now, parenting, simple pleasures, winter celebrations
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Putting a Candle in the Window
Natalie and I recently watched the movie Everyday People. In it there is a scene in which a young man about to enter college, who is estranged from his father, is in a restaurant speaking to an older man who has … Continue reading
Up to our Armpits in Holiday Spirit
Well — we’ve officially hit the holiday season, and hit the ground running this year. Perhaps it’s been the unseasonably wintery winter that arrived with Thanksgiving. Perhaps it is the earlier observance of Hanukah this year. Or maybe just that … Continue reading