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Tag Archives: modeling
The END of all Tantrums
A tantrum is generally defined as “a violent demonstration of rage or frustration; a sudden display of bad temper”. When you dig deeper, you’ll discover that a so called “bad temper” refers to a “persisting angry mood”. And if we … Continue reading →
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Spoil the Rod, Spare the Child
Reblogged from "A Beautiful Place of the World": I feel a little funny posting about this — like, “surely everyone has figured this out” — but I have seen a number of posts on other peoples’ blogs, lately, about whether or … Continue reading →
The Home PR Agents
Reblogged from "A Beautiful Place of the World": Ever thought of yourself as a Public Relations specialist? Well as a parent, it’s practical to think of it as part of the job. It may not seem like an occupation to … Continue reading →
Possession -- 9/10 of the Problem?
Reblogged from "A Beautiful Place of the World": “This body is mine, cuz it was born on me. Just I get to use it, and no one else. That’s why it’s my body.” That’s the extent of 3 year old Echo’s … Continue reading →
Your Kid as Johnny 5
Reblogged from "A Beautiful Place of the World": “Need input. Need input. Neeeed iinnnpuut!” Your child is an information and experience Hoover. She was born to devour data. He was created in just such a way as to be driven to gorge … Continue reading →
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Empathy Schmimpathy… Why Bother?!
There’s a change occurring in the world of parenting today. A gradual shift is taking shape and gliding toward new ways of envisioning and inhabiting the parent-child relationship. The old adages we grew up with — of children being seen … Continue reading →
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Mama -- if you love me -- why don't you like me?
Reblogged from "A Beautiful Place of the World": Here’s a question worth considering — What do you think of your child? Here’s a more important one — What does your child think you think of him/her? The two are related … Continue reading →
F-ing Up the Right Way
Reblogged from "A Beautiful Place of the World": I am not a perfect parent — just so you know. I do the things I have actually spent time thinking and researching and learning about why not to do them. I say the … Continue reading →
Parentisms: Reading You Loud and Clear
“Come in — come in — this is the infant brain — all systems are go and we are reading you loud and clear — copy?” The human brain is a wonder of the cosmos. It regularly performs feats which … Continue reading →
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Help Me Out -- Stop Trying to Fix It
Reblogged from "A Beautiful Place of the World": As parents, we are almost constantly saddled with various repairs, clean-ups, re-workings, and resettings for our children. In fact, we get so used to being the ones to restore order and serenity … Continue reading →
Building an Emotionally Safe Household
Reblogged from "A Beautiful Place of the World": My highly esteemed partner, Natalie (that’s her, being the human pillow), wrote the article below for Mothering Magazine (before they went paperless…) and it so perfectly encapsulates the sum total of our approach … Continue reading →
Benefit of the Belief
Reblogged from "A Beautiful Place of the World": As parents, we’re all pretty used to being the ones most “in the know” in the family, right? We’re “the bosses”, “the head honchos”, “the leaders”, “the responsible parties”. Sometimes we don’t … Continue reading →
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Perfection is a Bullsh*t Goal
Reblogged from "A Beautiful Place of the World": Take it from a lifelong sufferer of his own particular strain of perfection addiction — we’d be better off putting ourselves out of everyone else’s misery (especially our children’s) than laying all … Continue reading →
The Trust Equation
Reblogged from "A Beautiful Place of the World": Today, I wanted to present you with a simple parenting algebra equation to derive trust. It says that the trust our kids feel in us is directly proportional to the product of … Continue reading →
The (Very) Bottom Line
Reblogged from "A Beautiful Place of the World": My esteemed partner/lover/child-tender/magic-maker, Natalie, and I have been talking (as some couples do…) about parenting – and other stuff — for as long as we have been together. It is something we do, … Continue reading →
